How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Does not procrastinate.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

That's it for today.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Ask yourself:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What I need from you?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.